Comments Share your thoughts and debate the big issues. But if your partner can't be their genuine self around you by three months, Backe says they may have deeper emotional issues that may need to be worked on. It happens all the time. I have now been happily married for years. Clare, If you read the last paragraph of my comment, I tried to be clear that I hope the lack of arousal traits was simply an omission of text, and not an absence in fact. My dad, son of Russian immigrant parents, was not the most chivalrous guy.
There's no shame in wanting commitment and exclusivity once you're realized your feelings.
So many people struggle to find happiness in relationships in this world. You chase them?