I find it all to be a dark, tragic comedy. You didn't always tell me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. The odds are stacked against men. The reality is that the world is a diverse place and everyone is different. While the first situation was obviously a pickup situation for everyone around this one seems like two friends who saw each other at the grocery store. I met once a model of 22 who was going out with a 65 year old, Rod Stewart 45 married Rachel Hunter 21, Chaplin 56 married an 18 year old.
Stay away from things that cost a lot of money, however.
After my divorce, many of them asked me out. What can we say about it? A little advice would be to use the 5 love languages quiz to build your profile, as well as talking about things you see yourself doing with this partner.