By doing no contact, you will also show her that you are not desperate to get back with her, which is going to make her more attractive to you. Pull Him Back With The Sheer Power Of Your Feminine Magnetism First of all, if your ex started jumping into a new relationship with someone immediately after the breakup or before they are completely healed, then they're most likely in a rebound relationship. And believe it or not, this was actually happening to my ex too a while back. Since you've been together with her for the last 9 years, its highly likely that she is going through a rebound relationship right now. However, whether those feelings are ignited once again or end in a form of closure would depend on what you do. So the question is, what should you do to get him back? Well at the moment, there isn't much you can do because of it's never right to break a relationship up.
She feels that perhaps this guy can make all her pain and the emptiness go away.
In October, she started dating someone. There's not much that can be done at this point, except to either win him back or to wait it out and hope it's merely a phase he's going through. Would also be a bit soon, after 30 days