If you can't depend on a guy to keep his word, he's showing you that he's not holding himself up to boyfriend standards. And I try to ask him what am I missing all he said is that he is having too much work to do. After all, your gut knows all the facts and everything about the situation. I also have articles published touching on building and strengthening relationships that you are free to check out. At first, this seemed romantic because it meant that he was thinking of you. When I offered him gum he ignored me.
This guy who messaged me first long time ago, asked me to date him.
This one is a tough one because everyone moves forward at a different pace. You're in!