I remember going out with a man who was a keen hand holder and I found it frustrating as it meant that I had to go at his pace all the time and sometimes I cross the road against the lights if the road is empty this is not illegal here but he held me back whenever I tried to do this and I wanted to tear my hair out!! Just go for it. Step 4 Create the perfect moment to smoothly move into a hand hold by joking that you want to see the size of her hand verses yours. I can think of a whole LOT of things straight guys can get away with now then. On the other hand, if you've been friends with that person for a while, then holding hands on the first date is normal. Rate my second date involving two shy people. From sworn enemy to love of my life
I promise she won't mind unless she just isn't into you at all.
Post Guidelines: Actually holding hands as opposed to merely touching them on a table or something is usually a several dates in thing for me. I never thought about a girl not wanting to hold hands, because she has to keep up with my walking pace!