Also, think about your own answers to the questions. Or whatever instrument he may play Dress up for a night on the town or go full casual? Would you rather have someone who is average in looks in your life that accepts you as you are or someone who is extremely beautiful but wants to change everything about you? I care more about whether or not it's handmade. Or do you want to be with someone who is more spur-of-the-moment? This is an ad network.
Have a snowball fight or water balloon fight?
Go to a concert together or make music together? Either way you can learn something about your friend, family or the person you are dating and even yourself.